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Monday, November 24, 2008

Bringing Heaven to Earth

As long as you are unaware of Being, you will seek meaning only within the dimension of doing and...future. Any meaning we find on that level is true only relatively and temporarily. - Eckhart Tolle

For those of us who have lived a score or two beyond the idealistic phase of youth have seen that time can take its toll on aspirations and imagined futures. Back then, some of us thought life would be different for us than it is now. Many of us grew up under the spell of the American dream with its promise of happiness through the pursuit and acquisition of material prosperity and success. We thought we'd be fat and happy by now. For some the fantasy was home life that looked like Ozzie and Harriet or the Cleavers who portrayed models of functional and harmonious relationships. We thought we'd find and stay with one person who'd make us happy, at last, and forever. We believed that a career would bring us esteem, empowerment and sense of purpose, while fully employing our talents.

Perhaps you have been blessed by achieving outer success in one or more of these aspects of life. Some may have material success, others success in relationships, others in empowering and satisfying careers. Yet, the real question that we all face is, what meaning remains, when these outer forms change over time. Many of us have become glaringly aware that wholesale changes in our finances, family or career can, and do, happen, and the meaning we have ascribed to these institutions will constitute the personal upending and pain of their passing. Further, if we are not awake to this trap of the ego, we will lick our wounds and resume our pursuit of meaning in a new form, another person, another job another material acquisition. But we have another choice. We don't have to continue to believe what is not true, and suffer the consequences.

A New Earth invites us to uncover inner meaning that arises from our Being, rather than outer meaning that come from our doing. To the extent that we identify with our jobs, our relationships with others and our possessions, we build a house of cards that can crumble and leave us hurting and empty. Our true purpose cannot be found at the outer level just as your true self cannot be fully revealed by your body. Meaning comes from who you are, which is spiritual, pure consciousness, not what you do.


True success in life comes when we align our true purpose (awareness of Self) with what we do. In this way, we bring an awakened vitality; an aliveness to every moment of doing. Even the most mundane task, when infused with present moment awareness can bring satisfaction to us, and excellent results to the world.

In this finale of our seven-week study of A New Earth, we bring its central overriding message to a focal point. We must partner with Spirit if we are to build a new reality, a new earth that works for us; that works for all of us. Perhaps the Psalmist said it as cogently as any: Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it. As we continue to pursue our worldly goals, we are best served by maintaining a spiritual sense of self about us. In this way, we ride the evolutionary wave that would move us to success as a species, an impulse that reveals our interconnectedness with all of life, helps us loosen our grip on the impermanent things, ensures we are guided and graced by the Eternal. This is how we bring Heaven to earth.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Befriending The Moment

You have probably heard it said, that you can pick your friends but you cannot pick your family. The present moment is like family. It shows up and you decide what kind of relationship you will have with it.

To our ego's way of thinking, circumstances determine the quality of our relationship with the present moment and the forms that come with it. Choice is a high teaching when it comes to how we react to life. Left to our ordinary perceptions, our joy meter goes up when things are going well and we can embrace the moment quite agreeably. Conversely, we dislike and resist the moments that look like trouble. The path of mastery, as taught by Tolle, and embodied by Jesus, Buddha and others, suggests an approach to life that is an open, welcoming embrace of each and every moment. Unconditional hospitality to all that shows up can profoundly change our lives.

An image of such extraordinary welcome is the opening scene in Les Misérables when Jean Valjean, who is seeking food and shelter, knocks on the door of a monastery after being rejected by countless households. A fearful nun and a kindly priest meet him at the door. Valjean tells them he just was released from prison for stealing, and shows them his parole papers declaring his dangerous nature. The nun cringes. The priest, without blinking an eye, invites him to enter, and tells him he is welcome to join them at their table.

You and I face this choice each moment. We do not know what the next moment will bring, what fate will knock at the door. The continuum of misfortune and fortune is vast and imminently unpredictable in this life. If we allow the conditions of life to determine our level of welcome or resistance, what hope is there for our peace? Can well being ever be achieved if the winds of change must always favor our preference? The answer of course is no. Yet, the ego dies hard and thrives on a continuous stream of dissatisfaction, ignorance or resistance of the present moment. Even when things are going extremely well, there is only a fleeting embrace of the pleasurable moment, before a past or future thought edges out a hospitable embrace of the present moment.

The importance of this message is knowing that we have a choice when life shows up. Here is the clear advice of Eckhart from A New Earth:
Once you have decided you want the present moment to be your friend, it is up to you to make the first move: Become friendly toward it, welcome it no matter in what disguise it comes, and soon you will see the results. One decision changes your entire reality. But that decision you have to make again and again and again - until it becomes natural to live in such a way. - Eckhart Tolle
The way we will bring forth the new earth is one choice at a time. How we cast our vote in any given moment will determine the world we live in. We may not be able to control what shows up at our door, but we can greet whatever it is with equanimity, maybe even befriend it. Such an approach to life can transform our hearts and that is the surest way to change our world. As Jesus said, there will be trials and tribulations in the world, but I have overcome the world. There is an overcoming power in you and me, and one powerful demonstration of that power is making the choice to befriend the present moment.

From Breakdown to Breakthrough

Like every hero's journey, our journey to spiritual enlightenment is fraught with daunting obstacles that would threaten our success and deter our resolve to continue. Those of us who have been on this path for any length of time have become all too acquainted with the "dragons" on the path.

These seeming enemies of our spiritual progress can take many forms but share an apparent motivation to deny and refute the emerging awareness of our true self.

Our journey of awakening through A New Earth teachings of Eckhart Tolle have consistently reminded us that our true identity has nothing to do with external definitions of human life. Neither gender, family history, social standing, occupation, material possession or dispossession, nor even internal definitions formed by our beliefs, experiences or personal perceptions of life define our true selves. To truly awaken we are consistently asked to drop our identification with all forms, including thought forms, and become conscious of our pure Being-ness; the pure consciousness that stands under and behind all that arises in form.

The greatest dragons we confront in our life are the inner demons of our wounds. Tolle calls these elements of the human experience, the "pain body." He defines the pain body as the "energy field of old but still-very-much-alive emotion that lives in almost every human being---the remnants of pain left behind by every strong negative emotion that is not fully faced, accepted and let go."

Naturally, we would rather take this hero's journey without dealing with these dragons. Yet the truth, discovered by every spiritual master that has gone the distance to self-realization, is that these apparent obstacles take us to the edge of an abyss, to the edge of our false self, where we must surrender to reach the greater awareness that lies beyond.

The pain body is the rant of the false self that screams over the top of our emerging realizations to claim we are not what our Spirit selves would have us know and realize. Yet, this rant must not have the last word if we are to prevail. Despite our very human tendency to shrink and do an end run to avoid the pain body confrontations, wisdom emboldens us to remain present. Just as turning around and facing the monster that pursues us in a dream can neutralize the threat, our willingness to face the pain body that gets in our face, can free us from its menacing hold on us.

This becomes the path to freedom, because our pain body, that collection of highly charged emotions, which would seem able to overtake us, will not withstand the light of consciousness. What is not real, will not survive the Light of Truth. Fight or flight will only make these imposters stronger in our mind and distance us from our true self. This is where heroics comes into play, at this pivot point that leads to greater progress on our spiritual journey or to greater suffering. It is the critical juncture where courage can return us to the path of wholeness. It is the place where a breakdown can become a breakthrough, where we can awaken through pain, and find transformation through suffering.

In community we find the collective resolve to support the growth and beauty that can emerge when we deal with dragons in a life affirming way. Remember as Rev. Michael Beckwith says, "a bad day for the ego is a good day for the soul."

War & Peace

The real and lasting victories are those of peace, and not of war. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Every war, every conflict with another person, every asserted opinion, every need to be right, is, at its core, nothing more or less than the defense of an illusion. Whether it is our religion, our nationality, our role, our culture, our family history, or our story, we can become identified with these aspects of our human experience and lose our true identity in them. We refer to these aspects by saying my religion, my race, my opinion, my story and distinguish them from everybody else with their religion, opinion and so on.

We become so easily lost in automatic identification that we really do need to stop and realize that all these aspects are nothing more than collections of thoughts and emotions. Admittedly, we may be deeply rooted in these ideas and identifications, but the truth is, they are not even close to representing the reality of our Being. Jesus said, "Before Abraham was, I Am." He was not talking about his body, but his essence. Before you had a body, or a family, or a religion, you were the offspring of Infinite Life. .. bearing the light that enlightens up every man/woman who comes into the world.

Conflicts that lead to resentments, at the least, or war, at the most extreme, stem from our perceived need to protect, and keep alive, a sense of self that is unmistakably false. As you know by now, if you've been following along with A New Earth teachings, this false self is the ego. The ego is bent on a relentless struggle for survival. Survival requires the "I" thought which requires the opposing notion of an "other." The ego survives and thrives on the notion of separation - separation from God, separation from all of life. The more we see ourselves as special and different, in competing relationship with everyone and everything else, the more we will keep alive the sense of self that is false. Survival of this false self is fed by being right and making others wrong. Is it any wonder conflicts, small and grand, are endemic on this earth?

Yet, we know a greater truth, deep down anyway. There is another reality, and another way of being together on this earth. The truth, revealed by mystical insight and quantum understanding, is there is a hidden wholeness, a unified field of life, in which we all live, move, and have our being. At our most elemental, essential nature, we are spiritual, existing in a field of energy where we are connected to every other living thing. In this field of unity, there is no need to struggle to survive, no separate interests competing for well being. Jesus called it the Kingdom of Heaven. Martin Buber called it I-thou awareness. In the I-Thou relationship, human beings are aware of each other as having a unity of being, subject to subject, rather than the I-It relationship in which others are separate and apart from one another.

To remain at war requires a sustained awareness of separation. To remain at peace requires a sustained awareness of our oneness. The only hope for lasting peace on earth (individually or collectively) is the fact that we have a choice in every moment. One choice leads to the battleground, and one leads to the peace table. Either we judge by appearances, which bear witness to a world of separation that leads to judgments and justifiable attacks, or we rise above ordinary thought to see through the eyes of the Christ and recognize our essential unity with everybody and everything. It is a true or false question.

Stop, Look and Listen

Now there was a great wind, so strong that it was splitting mountains and breaking rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a sound of sheer silence. - 1 Kings 19

We live tumultuous times, and with all its drama it is all we can do to take our attention away from the outer conditions even for a moment. It is our addiction to drama that would bar us from the peace that passes understanding. It is so easy for us to get hooked by the appearances of the world, become identified with the stuff in our life, and fall asleep to our spiritual purpose. That purpose, as espoused by Jesus, Buddha and other enlightened teachers, is to become spiritually awake. To be spiritually awake, in a word, means awareness. The more aware we are, without the clouds of assumptions, identifications, labels, and judgments, the more we will be at peace.

Awareness is the central message of Tolle's message in A New Earth. While religions point to peace, only awareness can get us there. Awareness is the larger context of our mind that allows us to observe our thoughts and feelings without getting lost in them. It is pure consciousness that can witness all that arises in our world, or in our mind, and remain undisturbed. It is the part of you that is eternal, infinite, unchanging, imperturbable consciousness. It's the essential you, beyond self image, or any other limited thought forms.

When our goal is to become keenly aware, we are less interested in what is happening outside of us, and able to turn our attention inward as the observer of our internal process. This is the process of being in the world, but not of it. We have the enlightened perspective, when we have, as Jesus said, eyes to see and ears to hear. We can be present and responsible to life events, yet keep enough distance to maintain objectivity in our perception; to not lose ourselves in the scenarios. For example: You have a body, but you are not your body. Your body could be in pain, or diseased or wearing out, but the I am of you has none of these limitations. When you maintain your awareness of your I am self, you can be at peace no matter what crisis is appearing in your world. This is the pièce de résistance of awareness.